Maybe over faked it
I was with a guy for a year in which time i had 'faked it' many times with him. Not always but very often and to the point where he thought he just had to look at me and i'd cum! All just to satisisfy his huge ego but now i'm with someone else who i really am having the best sex of my life with and the previous guy doesn't understand when i try to tell him how wonderful my sex life is now.


I don't have the heart to tell him....or have i just done that?!!!
(Pants on fire!, Tue 15 Jul 2008, 8:29, 6 replies)

So he's a b3tan?
Or he lurks. Nice.
( TY&GN, Tue 15 Jul 2008, 8:40, closed)

He's a lurker
All b3tans are masters in the wank chariot stakes!
(grazer is sick of looking at houses, Tue 15 Jul 2008, 8:42, closed)

That's very interesting
Yaaawn
(bigbillybaws, Tue 15 Jul 2008, 8:47, closed)

I think if you were faking so frequently..he had to know!
Surely.. the muscle spasms, the blood swelling to the chest and clit..you can't fake that. Maybe he knew all along, but was so selfish, just thought..well at least I'm enjoying myself !

Why didn't you tell him, and show him what you liked? Or did you want to dump him all along?
(TheRiddler Hmmmmm... I concur., Tue 15 Jul 2008, 8:53, closed)

If the poor lamb has no idea you were faking...
... then he's going to be rather hurt to find out that you were...

But if you're telling him that your sex-life is no SOOO Much better than it was with him, then Maybe you don't give a toss about his feelings anyway.

For Lurkers: If your Ex writes here and is saying that one of HER exes is confused when she mentions her - now excellent - sexlife, Then it's probably you.

You weren't that good in bed, and you need to work on your technique. Her new lover is better than you, but this happens. Get over it, and find someone who coimes with ease. They exist.. and they can be annoying for some, but great for others.

Etc. Ad Nauseam.
( Humpty Dumpty was Pushed Is unaware of having any limits., Tue 15 Jul 2008, 9:56, closed)

Why do you feel the need to tell him?
Odd. My ex used to hit the big O about 99% of the time.... I suspect fakery..... but the 1% throws me a little. I'm not saying I'm a sex god, she just seemed to go off at the slightest encouragement. Although occasionally "slight encouragement" would entail emerging red faced and bedraggled after an hour smothering under the duvet.
( baw__bag contains traces of nuts on, Wed 16 Jul 2008, 2:32, closed)