I'm always being accused of 'flirting' with people, when I think I'm just being friendly and outgoing, but it gets me into trouble.

Working in a busy coffee shop, I get to meet a variety of different people every day. Some nice, some not so nice, some downright disgusting. The weirdest was a guy who used to come in at 6.30 am, and order his drink. At that time in the morning, there wasn't too many people around, so we used to chat. Nothing flirty at all, in my eyes, the man was at least 20 years older than me, and smelled like a butchers. Part of my job is to be friendly to customers, believe me, I had no real interest in the guy. One day I put his drink up on the bar, when he grabs my wrist - not cool, but he wont release his grip. He leans in, and whispers: ' I'm sick of this sexual tension between us... call me', winks, and leaves me his number written on his receipt, and a nice bruise on my wrist to boot. Needless to say I never called him, and thankfully he never came in again. What I wanna know is what made him think it was ok to do that? Even if I had been flirting with him, grabbing my wrist was not the way to get in my pants.
(Twinx, Thu 18 Feb 2010, 22:11, 1 reply)

so you couldn't run away
obviously. and I'm absolutley NOT speaking from personal experience.
( kappynitty doubled your entendre on, Mon 22 Feb 2010, 15:25, closed)