wow i can so relate to your story.
Mainly the, staying in bed till gone midday, then coming home and saying "what are you going to cook me"

My ex had her fat american lesbian friend over for 6 months and spent all day shagging her whilst i was out at work paying the bills. Then she'd fuck off to America for 3 months (as long as visa waiver would allow) for a big jollyday then come back expecting to just carry on as before.

End of the day, its us that let em walk all over us, and if we do that, they will. Women are users. We can screw a girl for half an hour, but in the end they can screw us for life. After she finally sodded off with someone else, I ended up moving back with parents for a year to recover from a £10k debt she left me with. Whilst she was enjoying 3 holidays abroad a year with the next mug.

No I dont miss her either. But I love the fact I'm very friendly with most of her family still who now know all her dirty secrets LOL
(Miggyman, Tue 9 Mar 2010, 19:50, 1 reply)

debts...
We started to buy a flat, overpriced at £36,000 about two years before we split up.
When I left her new Boyfriend was supposed to be paying the mortgage.
Three years later, just after my mother had died and when I'd moved back to look after my father, I got a phone call from a debt agency (who she'd told where I was) for payment of almost £35,000. It turned out neither of them had ever paid a penny, and her story of selling it on when she moved and paying the mortgage off was bullshit.
Luckily the guy from the debt agency was decent, split it so she had to pay half, and gave me time to sort it out because of my dads illness.
Less than five weeks later my dad died.
I rang the guy, asked him if he'd accept a lump sum of £8,000 from the £16,000 I was getting from the sale of my parents home, and he said yes.
She had come to an arrangement with him to pay £30 a month.
It cost me half my inheritance, but that was the end of it. She'll be paying that until the end of her life.
(paof2 Nude might not be rude, but rude could be nude..., Tue 9 Mar 2010, 21:20, closed)