dear me, that's poor gay club ettiquete.
Ladies for fornication. Gents for micturation
( the mighty badger Aphrodite, on a bar stool, by your side, Wed 8 Apr 2009, 15:20, 1 reply)

I've never experienced this problem in ladies toilets in gay clubs.
It's usually full of camp men telling their fag hag friends how much they loathe their ex boyfriends.
( girlinthehole, Wed 8 Apr 2009, 15:25, closed)

I'm basing an entire generalisation here
on Bang/G.A.Y and cXr during the early nineties. But Bang particularly wasn't that into letting women in back then.
( the mighty badger Aphrodite, on a bar stool, by your side, Wed 8 Apr 2009, 15:38, closed)