There were some unanswered questions.
If you feel like answering, but if not I understand.

What happened? Did she stop, or did you have it stopped?

Was there ever any rational explanation for why she did it?
(username failed moderation, Tue 18 Dec 2012, 12:23, 2 replies)

He killed himself.

( Amorous Badger NAKED BEA ARTHUR PHOTOS 4U, Tue 18 Dec 2012, 12:38, closed)

Hmmmm
Well there were no rational explanations at all, the most I could gather was that she thought she was in love with me and often projected her anguish onto me as if I were someone else. For example, one night I got an answerphone message accusing me of having hurt her, physically, and mentally. At that point I'd known her for maybe a few months, she was drunk and called me Dad by accident. Take what you will from that!
It ended, abruptly. It took me months to believe it had finished, always expecting some new unwanted communication. Then a letter arrived and all my fears came rushing back, it said she'd had "physco-analis"(sic), so I guess she went to a doctor. Then the letter ranted like before in a really scary way. That month my girlfriend left and the stress was too much so I tried to top myself. Trues.
( SauronWibble I'll hold it, you lick it..., Tue 18 Dec 2012, 12:43, closed)

Bitches be trippin

(PsychoChomp, Tue 18 Dec 2012, 13:43, closed)

She was fucking mental
I would pity her if she hadn't ruined my life. Bitches be crazy!
( SauronWibble I'll hold it, you lick it..., Tue 18 Dec 2012, 14:34, closed)

If anyone from NZ is reading, 'butches be truppin'

( Monty Boyce, My cheese game is strong, Tue 18 Dec 2012, 16:38, closed)

I can imagine it was stressful.
Glad to know it all went away though.
(username failed moderation, Tue 18 Dec 2012, 14:17, closed)

Cheers
There is far much more to this story that I wouldn't dare to post here. Too many personal faults to all involved. Plus getting nice and flamed about a true fact of my life is just not my bag. Me and my Ex were very vunerable at the time and it broke us to pieces, she didn't even know about my stalker. I lied for two years and had a breakdown and I couldn't tell her why. Don't ask me why, I just felt I needed to be strong and keep our (potential family) going. Did a shit job and got dumped. Yay me.
( SauronWibble I'll hold it, you lick it..., Tue 18 Dec 2012, 14:37, closed)