The 'rabbit' affair
One of my ex's took being dumped quite hard.

We were living together and had been in a relationship for about three and a half years, about two years of which I was happy. So I did what I had to do and said I thought we should break up.

After locking himself in the spare room crying for nearly two days, he then came out and acted like nothing had happened. I told him again and he took my phone and locked me in the bedroom for nearly 24 hours. He then continued to act as if nothing had happened.
I have to add I was much younger, much more nieve and much less able to assert myself. So things carried on for a while. As far as I was concerned we were no longer together and he was just looking for somewhere to live.

So, I admit it was low, but after nearly a month of this weird half-existence I started seeing someone else. When I began no longer coming home every night he eventually declared he was going to his mums. 'Yay! He has finally accepted things and is leaving me'.

But after three weeks he said he was coming back. I assumed to get his things so I arranged to spend a couple of nights at the new boyfriends to be out of his way (he had also previously smashed the flat up and threatened to hit me, attempted to rape me and proven himself to have a drink problem - so I didnt fancy seeing him any more!) When I wasnt home to greet him after his 'holiday' (which Id told him was him moving out, but apparently he thought it wasnt final yet), he got pissed and tried to kill himself in my bath tub.

By this point his mother came to get him, packed up his things and took him home and convinced him it was over. I very quickly also moved out of that flat.

I discovered when packing my things that he had bought me a present. A rampant rabbit vibrator, 'so I wouldnt ever need any other man'.

Since followed about 2 years of abusive emails, begging me to come back to him and telling me what a disgusting whore I was along with death threats. But that he still loved me and wanted me anyway.

I think Im better off out of that one!
Appologies for the rambling! I know it only part answers the question, but the fact that I started a new relationship while living under his roof was me trying pretty hard to get the message across it was over!
( TheGirlWithNoName, Fri 6 Jun 2008, 11:04, Reply)