What's the hardest you've tried to get dumped?Groovypoodle writes, "My mate once told his girlfriend that he didn't think it was working only for her to laugh and tell him he was hilarious. Saying she was 'too weird' and 'slightly violent' and that he didn't like her was equally hilarious. Ripping off her wing mirror, throwing it through the windscreen
and storming off in a huff merely generated an apology from her a week later..."
Just how hard have you had to work to get someone to take the hint and stay dumped?
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chthonic, Thu 5 Jun 2008, 10:33)
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In my experienceShe's too available. You are too secure in the knowledge that she's there, so your mind is free to wander.
It doesn't mean its to be or not to be, but simply that if she can make herself less available to you, you'll start to crave the same attention you used to receive.
Above all else talk to her lad! Tell her that it's not necessarily a bad thing but that she must give you a kick in the pants and reinvigorate your feelings. If she starts acting like she doesn't care you will do an about turn quicksmart. Explain that the best she can do is to 'trick' you into missing her, but you *must* fully explain how you feel so she doesn't think you're just looking for a transition to breakup or room to fool around.
On reflection, the times I've been most head over heels in love with someone has been when they've been inaccessible in some way.
(, Tue 10 Jun 2008, 7:46, Reply)
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