ProcrastinationOutlook is a wonderful tool, but not when it keeps reminding you that it is now 96 weeks since you were supposed to finish a report you haven't even started yet.
Just how lazy are you? How long will you put off the essential or the inevitable? What do you fill the time with?
(We're too lazy to write something funny here. You do it.)
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chthonic, Thu 13 Nov 2008, 18:18)
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@CHCBHi,
Thought I'd pop by for some late-night drive-by web-psychiatry.
From what I remember, you seemed to have a fear of intimacy, and the BF also has one ("emotionally unavailable"). Part of what brought the two of you together was your shared fear of becoming too close. You may have initially thought that this shared fear of closeness was something that would bring the two of you closer yet allow you to retain your distance, but in practice, this hasn't worked out so well.
Perhaps you have the desire somewhere deep down to be more intimate. Maybe you don't want to admit it to yourself, but this might be subconsciously nagging you to break up with him.
Forgive me if I'm wrong. I'm just making a stab in the dark here, but I just thought I'd share my thoughts.
I hope that whatever you do next turns out well.
spakkaman out.
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mistaspakkaman and the inedible shifting caterpillars, Thu 20 Nov 2008, 3:17,
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