Trust.
My mum & I didn't have the best relationship. She pretty much lied to me for 20 years about who my father was.
After she'd told me (on her 50th birthday - I'd taken her to lunch) she just couldn't understand that I had no trust in her whatsoever. EDIT: I should say that in growing up I gave her plenty of reasons to both trust & dis-trust me.

Years later whilst arguing about "trust" in general she commented that she "wouldn't trust me to tie my own shoelaces correctly" , I came back with - "I wouldn't trust you with my up-bringing!"
She paused, smiled in a sweet way that only a parent can when looking at their kid and said
"Well I didn't fail completely then did I?"
(Misery McUglywife an attention seeking sociopathic fuckstain., Sun 27 Nov 2011, 2:10, 9 replies)

that's messed up.
so, who's your daddy? and why the secrecy? was he a soviet-era spy or something?
(Gritty, yet fluffy. kipperpillock is obsessed with me =), Sun 27 Nov 2011, 8:12, closed)

dad=grandad

( Dr. Shambolic je suis charlie, Sun 27 Nov 2011, 11:14, closed)

"so, who's your daddy?"
srsly?
(Misery McUglywife an attention seeking sociopathic fuckstain., Sun 27 Nov 2011, 12:09, closed)

srsly.
Is he infamous?
(Gritty, yet fluffy. kipperpillock is obsessed with me =), Mon 28 Nov 2011, 0:59, closed)

Nope. Just left his wife (and baby son) to be with my mum.
She caught him several months later with her best friend - she should've expected it really. He went back to his missus (I've got loads of half sibbies - & that's just the 1's we know about let alone the other bastards like me!).
I think she didn't tell me 'cause she was afraid of being judged - bit silly really because as "the other woman" she was a bit of a failure.
I guess after that she just found it easier to be single really.
So. Who is your daddy?
;P
EDIT: All ^ that or I'm Zowie Bowie...
(Misery McUglywife an attention seeking sociopathic fuckstain., Mon 28 Nov 2011, 4:37, closed)

"Oh my gawd, my whole life's a lie"
Grow up, this isn't Eastenders
( Grrrmachine the indifference engine, Mon 28 Nov 2011, 8:10, closed)

Was I bawling?
Did you notice tears trickling down my cheeks?

"Go back to watching the television. Lest you mistake the real world for something you just watched." - Me. Just now.
(Misery McUglywife an attention seeking sociopathic fuckstain., Mon 28 Nov 2011, 8:15, closed)