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"Recently," Broken Arrow tells us, "The missus informed me that her brother was moving with us." What has your partner done that's convinced you the magic's gone? "Breathe" is not an answer.

(, Thu 21 Oct 2010, 12:33)
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Hmmm.
A few years back I met this very sweet girl through a group of friends in a nightclub. We got on well and started dating. She seemed to be quite innocent and if not pure then not far past it. But then she met a new friend and when ever she was not with me she seemed to be with him. Her best friend knew what was going on and thankfully gave me whatever warning she could in a variety of subtle ways without breaking the loyalty she felt to an old friend.

In the end I got fed up with her lying and started being nosey around her myspace, email etc and STILL she denied the whole thing. Then I found something she couldn't deny via the other guys friend. This was on valentine's day after I had shelled out £500 for a hotel etc. So I did the only decent thing. I took her away for three days without him knowing. We then split up but I kept shagging her behind his back, half because I loved her and half because I was going to hurt the ugly little cunt and her too no matter what happened to me. Add in a new cheap mobile (anonymous too) and the fact he lived miles away and I had his mobile number too and I spent ages winding him up, giving her panic attacks and feeling so good when I saw the look on her face when we were out and she got a phone call from him telling her he knew she was with me (she wasn't allowed to see me but the blind twat couldn't see she was lying anymore than I could).

Then we stopped everything but stayed friends. I gave up and met someone else. She and him stayed together for a while until he went to uni and started doing other people whereupon she went a bit mental, on the coke, breaking things, meeting a nice new guy and treating him like absolute shit and generally having a bit of a break down (which I like to think I may have helped along a bit).

One day the new lady and I had broken up and old ex reappeared on the scene and wanted me back. I went along with it for a while and then told her I wanted her back as much as I wanted to put my bollocks in between two sharpened lift doors and left her to it. Now only her best friend stands by her. Her other friends hate her, she has grown up and thankfully is a much nicer person.

I didn't enjoy that year of my life, but I forgave, if not forgot. I am not perfect and I am sure it was karma for something I had done in the past but it at least balanced the universe I suppose.
(, Thu 21 Oct 2010, 17:47, 1 reply)
Mate
This is a win for you.
(, Fri 22 Oct 2010, 2:27, closed)

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