I met a girl in my hometown, shortly after I had moved away to another country
We had known who each other was for a long time but didn't 'know' each other well if you get my meaning. Anyway, one Christmas I got talking to her and found we had a lot in common, she had a small town mentality but was extremely intelligent and wanted to go places.

However her waster ex-boyfriend and father of her child wasn't going to let her. Once he realised she was seeing someone else he started seeding the doubts. Pressuring her into thinking she was a bad mother for devoting some of her time to someone else, that a long distance relationship was not fair on her or her child. The best one was that enrolling in college part time was unfair to her son. Anyway, 3 months later and she called it off.

She has started seeing a decent bloke last year and surprise surprise her ex started the same shit. Thankfully she has wised up and he is largely ignored now and she is doing well and seems really happy :)
( Bamboo Steamer, Mon 25 Oct 2010, 10:39, Reply)