This is infuriatingly true.
Whenever I mention to girls (whether they happen to be my current girlfriend or not) that I've been with men in the past, they get a kind of amused, mischievous glint in their eye that says "Great! Now I can talk to him about shopping, fashion and Desperate Housewives!" (false), and it never gets me anywhere nearer nookie.

The most open-minded lass I've ever known on the subject was my ex, for whom I was her third boyfriend who'd 'experimented'. She told me that when she was with her first boyfriend like that, her number one greatest fantasy was to watch him and another man together. I immediately perked up (quiet at the back) as I found the whole idea very exciting, until she said "...but not you because you're too masculine." What is this double standard anyway?
( .Yeti. El amor en los tiempos del cólera, Mon 28 Dec 2009, 9:57, Reply)