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Freddie Woo tells us: Despite being a well rounded modern man I think women are best off getting married and having a few kids else they'll be absolutely miserable come middle age.

What views do you have that are probably sexist that you believe are true?

(, Sun 27 Dec 2009, 12:23)
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My quote was "eye-popping, risque"
to be appreciated? Are ye mad? And this is where this whole pitiful argument has needlesly perpetuated. If you think a woman wears eye-popping risque clothing to be "appreciated" then yer a maddo or a feminist. Not once did I say they *want* to be or *deserve* to be stared at, but by gum you better expect it.

Then queue awkward looks from men who don't know where to place their eyes. Do you see why this is wrong?

*edit* for eye-popping and risque, just to clear-up as I don't think we're talking on the same level here, but think Katie Price.
(, Wed 6 Jan 2010, 17:23, 1 reply)
Not really
seeing the insult in 'feminist' there.

And you are a little bit loopy if you don't realise that when women are tarted up for a night out 70% of it is for their mates. Women dress for other women (holds more true for posh parties, but almost as valid for nights out.)

And every women accepts the quick flick up and down, and is generally a veteran of both the interested, and the 'eh not so bad' looks. But that is vastly different from just plain out lechery, and if a man can't keep his eyes on my face then I generally find it appropriate to make a judgement of my own on him, and it's rarely flattering.
(, Wed 6 Jan 2010, 20:15, closed)
Ah, you've explained what I was trying to say using 10% of the words
If I had a pandatron, I'd engage it.
(, Thu 7 Jan 2010, 9:24, closed)
I see you aren't that glad of Amber speaking for 3 billion women world-wide
But pander away!
(, Thu 7 Jan 2010, 9:46, closed)
Busted.
Sad face.
(, Thu 7 Jan 2010, 9:55, closed)
Indeed
I love speaking for three billion women :) On the downside it makes my voice hoarse.
(, Thu 7 Jan 2010, 13:27, closed)
I don't see why any of this is disagreeing with me
The only thing is while I say women want to be shown adulation, you think they are doing it "for their mates". What's the difference? They want adulation from their mates. Perhaps worship is too strong a word but it's not a magnificent stretch of the imagination to say that women wear, and here is the key part - eye-popping/risque - clothing to be revered.

I fully agree that this doesn't warrant lechery, in fact I even said that before! I'm merely saying that if you wear such clothes then it is obvious that in the U.K. there are guys who's eyes are gonna be on stalks.

My comments are agreeing with the O/P on the paradox that women will happily flaunt with 95% of their tits hanging out yet get offended when a stranger stares. Of course no man should be leching away, I won't be(!), but why complain when you can just cover up!

Can't quite believe my throwaway comment has generated such a response.
(, Thu 7 Jan 2010, 9:45, closed)
I think maybe you're right about crossed wires
and the extent of the dressing we're talking about. I agree that there seems to be a certain element of, if she likes the look of the guy then she's happy for the attention and if she doesn't like the look of the guy then she cries foul.

But generally, I just think that lechery ain't the right way to treat people. We're agreed on that.
(, Thu 7 Jan 2010, 9:58, closed)

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