Never really understood those things...
...on the grounds that they are supposed to prevent the wearer getting an erection. Surely, given sufficient use, one would be 'conditioned' not to get erections - i.e. impotent?
(minimalist ..., Mon 21 May 2012, 15:52, 1 reply)

It's about
Power Exchange. You hand over control of your primal urges to your Mistress who decides whether you should become turned on or not, not you, and that is what gives you pleasure.
It won't physically damage you, you'll still get a boner (when SWMBO deems you are worthy). I believe those who enjoy being put in chastity get great satisfaction in knowing they are no longer the drooling, cock-rubbing chimp that 99% of us blokes are, until they have permission to be.

I think the OP's other half should use some CBT devices (once again, nowt to do with motorbikes), it sounds like he's getting too much pleasure from being in chastity, he needs to know he's a BAD boy, and that filth won't be tolerated. My friend "Dr Pinch CBT" manufactures some fiendish devices...
(Rsoles, Mon 21 May 2012, 21:23, closed)

Well, that's up to my wife.
Tease and denial, ruined orgasm are all good fun. Not had much joy with prostate milking. For some reason clothes pegs on the balls makes me cum straight away, which defeats the object.
(Louis Tully, Mon 21 May 2012, 22:45, closed)