"It's a selfish act."
Of course it is - yet you seem to portray it in a bad light.

Hate to sound like the uncomfortable sex-ed teacher here but there is absolutely nothing wrong with wanking & anyone who says otherwise is more fucked up than any hairy-palmer you're ever likely to meet.

Excessive (make your own mind up on quotas) masturbation or excluding sex with your partner in favour of wanking ain't so good however - but to suggest that wanking is bad cause it's selfish is a bit like saying you shouldn't eat chocolate because it tastes good.
(Misery McUglywife an attention seeking sociopathic fuckstain., Mon 21 May 2012, 22:44, 1 reply)

I think you know what I was saying.
Were I single I would wank more. In our relationship I was not sharing the build up of sexual desire, and that was selfish as it often deprived us both of enjoying it.
(Louis Tully, Mon 21 May 2012, 23:02, closed)