Nietzsche was right all along
I was always pious. And into computers. So I never really got close to a girl until I was 20. This was the now Mrs Chutney. Unfortunately she was a signed up Christian, youth groups, bible study before bed, everything.

She was great otherwise, and we got it together in an enthusiastic couple of weeks. Kissing is great! Who knew? But then she fell into a fit of holy angst when it came to anything physical. Despite a good bit of early groping, I never actually got to see her nipples for a few years. I genuinely loved her and believed anything she told me, and she did indeed believe it herself. I was actually happy with the situation.

Anyway, all this fell away over time. Theres no reason or purpose to life other than to do the best with what you've been given. Plato (I think) figure that out around 400BC. And so we are now happily married.

Its true that the world doesn't owe you a living. But you don't owe it an apology for being born either. I'm now (oddly, hypocritically perhaps) pleased that shes the only partner I've had, and vice versa. But I still wish I'd fucked her good in the first week. And then wiped myself off on the curtains on the way out.
(chutneyweasel, Fri 9 Dec 2011, 11:01, 6 replies)

I wanted to say the same to a previous poster,
but she appears to have deleted the post. Along the lines of wanting to have sex with someone they love.

Making love is far better than sex any day.
( Blind Meach Cautiously optimistic, Fri 9 Dec 2011, 11:19, closed)

Sometimes,
a quickie is all you need.
( monster munch person, man, woman... camera... TV?, Fri 9 Dec 2011, 12:32, closed)

Absolutely.
And even better with a loved one.
( Blind Meach Cautiously optimistic, Fri 9 Dec 2011, 12:34, closed)

I'd be gutted
At the risk of getting another mention on Badgers OCC list, no two women are ever exactly the same.

I suppose if you're happy with it, it's not for me or anyone else to criticise, but I don't think having shagged around has ever done me any harm.
(username failed moderation, Fri 9 Dec 2011, 11:23, closed)

She was totally fucking other people behind your back.

( Dr. Shambolic je suis charlie, Fri 9 Dec 2011, 11:30, closed)

Well,
I've been faithful to Xena for over 25 years now, and I have to say that I don't regret it. I could have been unfaithful a couple of times, and I've thought about it countless times, but I know that it would have been the one time that I regretted something I did, rather than regretting not doing it.

I'd much rather be where we are now than getting bored of a second wife / on my own / not in touch with my daughter.

Good on you c.w.
(Che Grimsdale Best before:, Fri 9 Dec 2011, 12:32, closed)