Hear hear!
I would never check my boyfriends emails/facebook messages or texts (despite having frequent access to all three). Good relationships are based on trust, and if one doesn't trust someone, one can never truly love them. Being paranoid and clingy will: (a) piss off one's partner, and (b) deny one the ability of being happy.
Stalkers, clingers, cheaters and those with the inability to form long-term relationships have something wrong mentally, and until they confront what it is, they will continue to piss other people off.
(The Empress it seems you CAN polish a turd!, Tue 5 Feb 2008, 14:51, Reply)