Hate to have to point this out...
... But not all of us chaps are undamaged goods ourselves either. Before you ask I'm certainly not loon material, but like a good many b3tans I play unwilling host to the Black Dog from time to time.

Sometimes it's nice to be able to have a certain amount of recognition and understanding in a partner. I'd personally take someone who's slightly neurotic but understanding over someone who is stable but has absolutely no idea what its like to feel like utter shit occasionally.

It's exactly the same as suggesting that all men want is an orange skinned nail technician called "Vicky" with breast implants, three GCSEs and who's sole ambition in life to own a Mini Cooper.

However, it's difficult to guage whether "slightly neurotic" might be "daffy in a cute kind of fashion" or "fuck me she's barking at the moon again" until it's too late.

Sometimes it's all too easy to be fooled. I might post a tale of woe later for interested parties.
(Bicycle Repairman "you're also a bit of a wanker", Tue 5 Feb 2008, 14:54, Reply)