Things to do before you dieSandettie Light Vessel Automatic tells us that his ambition is to a) drive around New Zealand in a camper van; and b) have MASSIVE sex with the original members of Bananarama. Tell us what's on your wish list, and why.
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Scaryduck LIKES EGG, Thu 14 Oct 2010, 13:08)
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Tell them.You've had this resentment towards them burning away inside you for a long time.
As for the guilt tripping, agree with it and tell them why you 'never go to see them' and just how much you 'don't care'. Do it in a public place, if you can be sure they'll not kick off, so you can all say your piece and listen to each other without the tears and shouting.
It worked for me and I'm now closer to my mum than I ever have been. I did end up breaking my dad's nose though but they separated when I was 4 and it was on an 'access visit' that I didn't agree to. He hit me so I hit him back. Not spoken since. Happyness all round there! :)
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