Perhaps it wasn't meant to be taken that way.Unfortunately, giving people ostensibly 'sensible advice' which is rather simplistic and takes no account of what it's really like to be raped is likely to backfire if any of those people have first-hand experience. Rape is hard enough to get over without being made to feel guilty about how you dealt with the aftermath.
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