Hmm yeah
actually a good point. Although if he was imagining me doing something I really hated, however innocent, I'd kind of wonder why he was imagining me being like somebody else.
It's just the idea of being thought of as a sexual thing, to me, it's horrid.
( Moon Girl Technologies horrendous beanbag, Mon 10 Dec 2007, 13:30, archived)

I promise I'll do my best not to
but you can have sex without treating someone like an object, despite what internet links might have you believe.
( Flapjack I spay a little mare for you, Mon 10 Dec 2007, 13:35, archived)