I agree it is good, I just surprised myself.
By and large I am a fairly quiet person and prone to being a bit shy; an effect I expected to be amplified by removing all my clothes in front of someone. It turns out that it is quite the opposite, I don't get self conscious at all so it is a good thing all round. And light bondage is ace.
( Nimble Colin camera-wrangling, globe-trotting whisky enthusiast, Fri 8 Apr 2005, 12:25, archived)

Aye it is
I'd recommend (to whatever degree you're comfortable with):

Eroto-asphyxiation (definitely this)
Candle wax
Blindfolds

My old g/f and I used to get a little carried away with a few things (cutting/power play etc) but it was all good :)
( Fenris temporary Lazarus, Fri 8 Apr 2005, 12:41, archived)

please stop
trying really hard not to think about things like this
*gnaws desk somemore*
( Giant bunny jumping out like a large happy tourettes rabbit, Fri 8 Apr 2005, 12:43, archived)

Blindfolds are good,
candelwax is in plentiful supply but I don't think she would be up for it and eroto-asphyxiation sounds interesting but she might not want to try that either.
( Nimble Colin camera-wrangling, globe-trotting whisky enthusiast, Fri 8 Apr 2005, 12:46, archived)