Then why did you think about living with her?
This seems silly.
( Pickle Fairy is clumsily dancing away this fear, Mon 7 Apr 2008, 23:52, archived)

yes, well
one can believe that they will change. It's called love - i.e. an act of knowing self-deception and blindness to the inevitabilities of life. Plus, don't forget, good sex - first I'd had in 14 years. That counts for a lot. Plus we did actually have fun together as long as we stayed away from "real life"...
( I_Was_Mordred, Mon 7 Apr 2008, 23:54, archived)

So it was mainly a sex thing?
That's not a good reason.
( Pickle Fairy is clumsily dancing away this fear, Tue 8 Apr 2008, 0:00, archived)