No not at all
but the fellow may use her if he thinks she is there for the taking any time. This is the balance.

(I also had a couple of stalkers, they went beyond the realms of pushy and after that experience I am scared of women who throw themselves at me and then somehow seem permanently stuck with super strength glue and major psychotic disorders.)

edit/ however - men are useless at getting hints. Just whisper softly in his ear those magic words. "Fuck me [INSERT NAME HERE]" and he will be putty in your fingers and rock in your mouth.
( Enigmatic ™                 Voice No More                  ©, Sun 3 Jul 2005, 1:30, archived)