Give them cash
it might be impersonal but if that's what they've asked for then that's what they probably need.
( Madam Marlboro wonders if you've found her yet, Sat 30 May 2009, 12:31, archived)

but how much?

(rigby happened on (and with added toothache), Sat 30 May 2009, 12:32, archived)

I was going to give them £50 if I decide to go with Cash.

( Mrs Sp@m, Sat 30 May 2009, 12:33, archived)

Sounds about right to me
The photos are a lovely idea but I know so many married couples that just need to mend up the finances after a wedding
( Madam Marlboro wonders if you've found her yet, Sat 30 May 2009, 12:35, archived)

This
weddings aren't cheap.
( Major Turd for tonight only, Sat 30 May 2009, 12:34, archived)