
He turned up at a club he's been specifically barred from by both the owners and the police, and proceeded to shout abuse at me and the lady.
He's totally gone in the head.
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Wed 27 Jun 2007, 10:20,
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He's totally gone in the head.

and speak to the police about how to proceed
the sooner you make this official, the quicker you will (hopefully) be able to get it resolved
edit: just read the above, so it looks like you've got the proceedure well underway
you're not having much luck lately, are you?
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Wed 27 Jun 2007, 10:23,
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the sooner you make this official, the quicker you will (hopefully) be able to get it resolved
edit: just read the above, so it looks like you've got the proceedure well underway
you're not having much luck lately, are you?

The police have been round to his house and officially cautioned him under the harrassment act.
He's now not allowed to go anywhere where he might come into contact with me - but that didn't stop him going to the club which he knew I'd be at.
*edit*
Nope, no luck whatsoever. On top of all this the debt collection agency from two years back has finally tracked me down, so I now have to start paying back 10k of debt too... My own fault admittedly, but it could have waited for a better time.
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Wed 27 Jun 2007, 10:25,
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He's now not allowed to go anywhere where he might come into contact with me - but that didn't stop him going to the club which he knew I'd be at.
*edit*
Nope, no luck whatsoever. On top of all this the debt collection agency from two years back has finally tracked me down, so I now have to start paying back 10k of debt too... My own fault admittedly, but it could have waited for a better time.

cps.gov.uk/legal/section13/chapter_t.html#_Toc3085034
keep it all above board.
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Wed 27 Jun 2007, 10:28,
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keep it all above board.

i find it best to keep it all above board before you have to break something.
and remember the word 'resonable', punching him in the face, breaking his nose and restraining him could be seen as resonable, as you were in fear of your own personal safety.
punching him in the face, breaking his nose, repetedly kicking him while he's on the floor, breaking his ribs and turning his face into a pulpy mess would probably be seen as excessive.
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Wed 27 Jun 2007, 10:32,
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and remember the word 'resonable', punching him in the face, breaking his nose and restraining him could be seen as resonable, as you were in fear of your own personal safety.
punching him in the face, breaking his nose, repetedly kicking him while he's on the floor, breaking his ribs and turning his face into a pulpy mess would probably be seen as excessive.