i had some shyness when i was younger.
later on i puzzled out that pretty much everyone is insecure or shy in some way and that the people who get what/who they want are those who abandon a good part of their shame/fear and just ask for what they want.
if she is taken, oh well. at least you gave it a shot.
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postbear has metal knees,
Tue 13 Nov 2007, 4:22,
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see...
i figure...if i keep subtly plugging away,
the situation could remedy herself....if
what i hear about her is true, it probably
won't last anyway ^_-
yes, i realize this means i'm totally setting myself up
for heartache...and i'm ok with that, ^_^
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*f o o f* is a craft-aholic,
Tue 13 Nov 2007, 4:26,
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heartache sucks when you're mired in it.
but it's pretty much mandatory as part of the maturing process.
better to regret something you tried for than to regret something you never really attempted.
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postbear has metal knees,
Tue 13 Nov 2007, 4:30,
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