
but i'm just i guess put off by the fact that sex and peoples sexual urges are suddenly so public, not to say things should be all secret and taboo..but now days it's seen fine to flaunt such things and in some cases i just think 'oh god thats tacky'. but i wouldn't be cool with being so open about it. i just think thats something better kept between me and my sexual partner, if i have one (ever again. ha).
not for one moment am i saying lets all be repressed and don't talk about such things..but i just find the whole idea of going somewhere devoted to ones sexual desires or urges and being so public with it really odd and unpleasant.
but whatever people are cool with it as long as it's not having ill effect on others it's all fine.
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not for one moment am i saying lets all be repressed and don't talk about such things..but i just find the whole idea of going somewhere devoted to ones sexual desires or urges and being so public with it really odd and unpleasant.
but whatever people are cool with it as long as it's not having ill effect on others it's all fine.

There's been orgies for thousands of years. Only recently have we really become so internalised. I mean recently in terms of hundreds of years, but still. I think for me (in no way a reflection on your views, you're entirely within your right to have them) talking honestly about something as joyous as sex can't be offensive if graphic images of slaughter and war crimes are nationally broadcast into people's homes in the middle of the day and everyone's fine with that. I think it's unfair. There's millions of people out there who don't know the first thing about how to touch another person and get frightened to the point of losing an erection because of nerves because they've never felt comfortable enough to ask anyone- that to me is so sad.
I don't regret my teens one bit, I'm a lot calmer now but only really because I've satisfied a lot of my curiosity.
But yes, that's just my opinion, and we both have valid points. If everyone agreed all the time life'd be bloody awful.
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I don't regret my teens one bit, I'm a lot calmer now but only really because I've satisfied a lot of my curiosity.
But yes, that's just my opinion, and we both have valid points. If everyone agreed all the time life'd be bloody awful.