
technically "could" is the past tense of "can", so maybe they're emphasising their past ability to care, in contrast to the present.
( , Wed 1 Oct 2008, 19:39, Reply)

It is the lack of "not" that matters.
( , Thu 2 Oct 2008, 0:49, Reply)

It's like if someone says "do you have a good job" and you say "I did". "Did" being the past tense of "do" - thus emphasing the lack of having a good job in the present tense. Since "could" is the past tense of "can", as well as the conditional present (or something), then this could be what Americans mean.
( , Thu 2 Oct 2008, 19:34, Reply)