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Cigarettes, gambling, porn and booze. What's your addiction? How low have you sunk and how have you tried to beat it?

Thanks to big-girl's-blouse for the suggestion

(, Thu 18 Dec 2008, 16:42)
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I used to think it was porn...
For some time, I have thought that I have a porn addiction. Any opportunity I had, I'd nip on t'internet and look at some barenaked ladies. Nothing too kinky, just girlies of legal age in the nip.

Thing is, I'm married and get regular (like at least once a day) nookie, so I wasn't cracking one off while surfing left handed websites, I was just perusing them.

What I have now discovered, is it's not the porn that I was addicted to, it turns out it's just getting aroused / feeling horny.

The way I have discovered this is that what were flirty emails between me and the young, busty lass in work have recently become more towards the "obscene" end of the spectrum. As a result of this, I spend a large part of the day hiding a semi- to two thirds- on under my desk. Since this has been going on, I have logged onto certain art sites, only to discover I'm just not interested.

So, for those of you addicted to pron, try getting a bit on the side! Instant cure!
(, Wed 24 Dec 2008, 9:23, 6 replies)
Are you not happy with your wife?
That's not good :( I can understand a bit on the side if the main relationship isn't going well, but from the sounds of it, it's going fairly well.
(, Wed 24 Dec 2008, 9:50, closed)
Very happy
It's not like me and the lass in work actually do anything. There's just emails going back and forth that are on the dirty side of flirty. Before we got married, me and the missus talked through what actually counrts as cheating - dirty emails don't. They're just a bit of fun, really.
(, Wed 24 Dec 2008, 10:10, closed)
You sound like a
prick. I bet you wouldn't tell your wife about these emails. If you haven't then you know you are in the wrong.
(, Wed 24 Dec 2008, 10:27, closed)
She does know about them
the wife and I have a bit of a "don't ask, don't tell" policy. She doesn't ask what the exact contents of my emails are, I don't ask her what's in the text messages she gets at all hours of the day and night. She still refers to one girl I worked with as my "work wife" because we acted so much like a married couple - we even didn't have sex, just like the real thing!

Unlike, seemingly, 99% of the population, me and the missus trust each other not to overstep the boundries that we set when we decided to get married. We are fortunate in that way, there are so many people out there who argue because of stupid crap like looking at other people when you're out, my wife has said "I'd get worried if you stopped looking"...
(, Wed 24 Dec 2008, 10:46, closed)
My wife knows that I would
go straight for Grutle Kellyerson from the Black metal band Enslaved and I am sure that there are folks she thinks about when she flicks the bean when I am not about.

Flirtatious fantasy is fine if you are open and honest with your partner. My Mrs knows full well that I flirt with the lads at work and she knows why I do it too, I enjoy seeing them squirm because they know I actually prefer lady lips to pink oboes!

I did get one request to join us though, as a joke. However said lad looked quite sheepish when I told wifey of his request and she laughed.
(, Wed 24 Dec 2008, 11:24, closed)

"we even didn't have sex, just like the real thing!"

(, Wed 24 Dec 2008, 19:52, closed)

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