Hope the flaming's not been too painful for you prof
I wish I had some good advice to give you. Are kids one of the factors? i.e. you're both too knackered and lack the privacy except at the very end of the day?

Have you tried getting rid of the kids for a weekend (Grandparents, but shed at last resort) and going to bed in the afternoon with a selection of your (both of you) favourite foods and a couple of bottles of wine?

Works for us, though admitedly, we don't have the same issue. Yes, I have to do all the 'work', but at least the response is worth it.

Good luck.

Che
(Che Grimsdale Best before:, Tue 9 Aug 2011, 17:02, 2 replies)

Perhaps he's just really shit at it and she doesn't have the heart to tell him.

( Amorous Badger NAKED BEA ARTHUR PHOTOS 4U, Tue 9 Aug 2011, 17:28, closed)

I expected to get flamed posting a sexual problem on B3ta tbh
Having a kid doesn't help, though it was probably going downhill beforehand and I foolishly hoped it would get better by itself. Getting rid of him for a weekend might help, but anything that smacks too much of planning would make her feel under a promise.
(leprof, Tue 9 Aug 2011, 21:00, closed)

Yeah, she's fucking someone else.

( Amorous Badger NAKED BEA ARTHUR PHOTOS 4U, Wed 10 Aug 2011, 9:33, closed)

I hate agreeing with you, Badger.
It makes me feel dirty.
(Falstaff's Spiritual Successor, Wed 10 Aug 2011, 12:02, closed)