80% of what you've objected to here is just her having a different lifestyle to you.
As for the history, the suicide attempt - sure this is worrying, but she was just opening up to you, some people overshare when they are nervous. Nobody wants to be in a relationship with someone who's emotionally unstable, but honesty trumps that straight away - if you can share and communicate then you've got something more important.

So, if you'd been honest and told her at the outset that you have an irrational repulsion to the working classes and people with mental health problems, that might've gone down better.
( Zuowan, Tue 22 Oct 2013, 4:02, Reply)