It's over
I was 23 and newly married. She (not my wife) was 35 and in a long term relationship. Let's call her Sara.

She flirted with me outrageously and I enjoyed the attention. After a few months my wife was away and Sara invited me round to her place 'for a coffee'. She made it very clear what she wanted, but I didn't want to go there, and left. Next morning I phoned her, went over, and we had mindblowing sex with the autumn sun shining through the curtains of her bedroom. She was a lot more experienced than me, and somehow I felt more at ease during sex with her than with my wife. Sara likes to talk dirty, likes to be screwed hard, and loves oral. She has the tightest pussy I've ever known, the softest skin and the most welcoming mouth. She would get wet just at the thought of me, and delighted in telling me this. She introduced me to phone sex and loved hearing me get off while she talked.

Our relationship lasted for years. She kicked out her long term boyfriend, not because she wanted me to move in, but because being with me gave her the confidence to do it. Sara found another bloke, older than her, and married him, but we kept seeing each other. Even when I moved away from the area we would still find ways to meet and have sex. We both got something very physical from the relationship - she was great in bed and loved dirty sex. She said her husband was 'quite traditional' about sex, and she loved the fact that I was still 'a young man'.

However over time our needs changed. I became a thirty year old, she was in her forties with an attentive husband. We stopped seeing each other so regularly. Our relationship changed to being mainly phone calls and e mails, and we would talk about everything and nothing. We had similar interests and the discussions came to mean more than the physical side of our relationship. This could have been due to the fact that we lived many miles apart, but it was also due to the age gap and us both growing up. We got to the point where we hadn't seen each other in several years.

Her husband is older than her, I don't know by how much, but as she approached her late forties he went off sex. So the sexual side of my relatoinship with Sara picked up again - and this was fine for me. Phone sex with her was a real turn on - she played the part of the experienced older woman very well, making me feel very wanted. We met up again, and sex was still explosive. I still thought she looked young, but she was starting to get very concious of the effect of ageing on her body.

Over the next few years we met up rarely, but kept our long distance relationship going. She started the menopause, and this had a huge impact on her libido. Sara discussed this with me, very openly. Then after not meeting up for 3 years she suddenly wanted to see me again. I very much wanted to - my memories of sex with her had always been very good. But she was nervous: nervous about how she looked, how her body was, and nervous about how the menopause had affected her.

So we met, and it was like starting all over again - we walked, held hands, kissed, had a meal. To me she looked great. Then eventually we got into bed together and did the deed. Her skin was still soft, her lips welcoming, her pussy gripped me like a glove. For me it was almost like old times. But for her it felt wrong. I was no longer the young man she fancied. She was dry and sore. It didn't work out.

So that was the end of that. We argued about how we had reacted to each other. She said I wasn't caring - I replied that I thought she liked me being the younger man, getting dirty. But by now I was in my forties: hardly the younger man any more. One final phone call, a last e mail, and it's over. I still fantasise about her. She sent me an e-card on the anniversary of our first shag. But it's ov
(Smale is stuffed, Fri 5 Dec 2008, 11:17, 11 replies)

Let me get this straight...
Assuming this is true, you started having sex with another woman soon after getting married?

Is everyone in the world lying and cheating on everyone else?

I give up.
( Colonel Dracula Two manky hookers and a racist dwarf, Fri 5 Dec 2008, 11:41, closed)

I'm not
Colonel Dracula. But it makes you wonder, doesn't it?
(The Apeface Cherub is not a cunty-uber-cunt, Fri 5 Dec 2008, 11:47, closed)

Yay!
but I still give up.

*gives up*
( Colonel Dracula Two manky hookers and a racist dwarf, Fri 5 Dec 2008, 11:50, closed)

I note with disgust
no mention of your poor wife and the fact that you've been doing the dirty on her for almost 20 years you sick bastard. I hope she finds out one day (even though it's over now) and rips your fucking balls off, poor woman.

Sorry, but I hate cheaters, especially ones with no remorse at all.
(The Apeface Cherub is not a cunty-uber-cunt, Fri 5 Dec 2008, 11:46, closed)

how do you know
how do you know anything about my relationship with my wife? This QOTW was about my age gap shag, not about my marriage.
(Smale is stuffed, Fri 5 Dec 2008, 11:53, closed)

sounds
like a pretty shit relationship if you had the urge to fuck another woman for 20years!

I see that throughout this you also knocked up your wife and now have a son!!!

Oh dear.
( SpikeyPickle wishes he was mabazaritchie, Fri 5 Dec 2008, 12:21, closed)

so why draw attention to the the fact you were newly married?
(cmouse is pondering about life in other jobs, Fri 5 Dec 2008, 12:22, closed)

You're right
I didn't need to put that in there
(Smale is stuffed, Fri 5 Dec 2008, 12:26, closed)

*WINS*
Maybe you think your relationship is great; not sure she would knowing what we all do now though.
(The Apeface Cherub is not a cunty-uber-cunt, Fri 5 Dec 2008, 16:56, closed)

Hmm you still sound like a bastard to me unless both spouses were aware and happy about this situation!
(cmouse is pondering about life in other jobs, Sat 6 Dec 2008, 0:38, closed)

what a pair of cunts
same you couldn't see you were made for each other

that's truly rotten
( spimf ™ is whoever you want him to be, Sun 7 Dec 2008, 15:38, closed)