mugatu,
that's really sad, don't worry mate, it may be a cliche ,but time is a great healer

EDIT : last thing that made me cry - was just a completely spontaneous reaction last week while I was listening to a song and just got hit out of the blue by a really poignant lyric (an Erika Badu song)

and time before this was when I was in Nairobi in March, instead of giving the streetkids money I would walk them to a side shop selling sausages for 20 shillings (20p) and feed them. On e homeless kid who must hav e been 8 years old dressed in rags had his baby brother strapped to his back - when I looked under on e of the bandages on the babys little feet he had four toes missing - when the girl I was with spoke to the Boy to ask how it had happened , he explained they had rotted off after someone had stood on them. I fed the baby chicken and the thought of his little mouth chewing th efood get smne tearful and will haunt me forever
(Pope Benedict XVI, Wed 20 Apr 2005, 17:14, Reply)