I wouldn't spit on my maternal grandmother if she was on fire.
My mother and my sisters don't have anything to do with her and only my step-father tries to be nice to her.

She came round this weekend weeping and moaning to my mother after a long period when my mother has stood up to her and she didn't like it. She's a racist bitch and won't accept my adopted Sri-lankan sister or mixed race nephew as family. Her and my grandfather barely speak to each other, (he's crap but no-where as bad as she is).

She has very few friends and they are only really on the periphery of her life. The only close relative is another nephew who she helped to bring up and spoilt him rotten. Now he's finished Uni and living in London and she rarely sees him anymore.

She's caused so much trouble in our lives, and my mother's young life was shit because of her causing her to marry the first guy that asked, my father.

The saddest thing of all is that she'll die thinking she's done nothing wrong and that we're all awful for ignoring her.

I can't wait.
( girlinthehole, Mon 16 Nov 2009, 11:38, 5 replies)

You still have grandparents?
all mine died before I was 30.
( Colonel Dracula Two manky hookers and a racist dwarf, Mon 16 Nov 2009, 12:02, closed)

both
my parent's parents died before they were 19.
( Amberl was stripey and dominated Europe, Mon 16 Nov 2009, 12:28, closed)

They all live long on my mother's side of the family.

( girlinthehole, Mon 16 Nov 2009, 13:00, closed)

i lost all mine
before i turned 26 last month.

last one died in july this year
(bamboozled Can hear you getting fatter, Mon 16 Nov 2009, 21:09, closed)

My last one died
when I was 13... (one when my mother was 12, one when I was 3, another when I was 5).
(The Empress it seems you CAN polish a turd!, Mon 16 Nov 2009, 22:23, closed)