
Have you ever said something and wished the ground would open up and swallow you? Tell us your tales of social embarrassment.
Thanks to BraynDedd for the suggestion
( , Thu 16 Aug 2012, 14:12)
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No wonder everyone thinks your sort are thick.
( , Tue 21 Aug 2012, 13:36, 3 replies)

MAybe I just dreamed it when I was high.
( , Tue 21 Aug 2012, 13:59, closed)

I imagine I'm wrong, though, so I'll just go with whatever popular opinion dictates.
( , Tue 21 Aug 2012, 14:05, closed)

Still actively racist though, as is paki.
( , Tue 21 Aug 2012, 14:07, closed)

Which appears black.
"Paki" is racist in historical context only, but is etymologically merely a contraction. Hence (so I understand) a group wanting to reclaim it.
( , Tue 21 Aug 2012, 15:01, closed)

( , Tue 21 Aug 2012, 15:26, closed)

"Pakistan" means "Land of the Paks" in Persian, so they should really be known as Paks.
( , Tue 21 Aug 2012, 18:15, closed)

'nigger' is racist in a special way because it's an assertion that all black people come from a certain location. If that were the case, a conversation like this would make sense:
A: "Don't forget John, he's a nigger too."
B: "That's not true- he's from Uganda."
Right now, both 'nigger' and 'Paki' offend some people and communities for the exact same reason- they refer to a group (people with black skin, ethnically Pakistani people- or is it South Asian in general?) and they convey or assume negative sentiment about that group. It is totally unnecessary to know anything about the history of either word to be offended or not offended by it.
What it will take for either of them to not be offensive is probably exactly the same- for that negative sentiment to be bleached from the meaning of the word, which tends to happen when the social conditions that the word is used in change. Like 'paddy wagon', 'gyp', 'fag' (maybe on its way there), in American English. I'm not confident with Br. English examples, but I bet there are some good ones. :)
( , Tue 21 Aug 2012, 18:31, closed)

who referred to himself and his mates as Paki's but like the N bomb I doubt if I could have called him that even with his full consent
( , Tue 21 Aug 2012, 16:34, closed)

in sports context. I think it is a cultural thing. It's not right, but it's not considered as socially unacceptable down here. I can kind of see why, but still prefer not to use it myself.
( , Wed 22 Aug 2012, 1:08, closed)
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