I did indeed
hardest thing I've ever had to do. I'd been with her almost 3 years, and lived with her the whole time.

got to towards the end of uni and I started thinking about the future. this coincided with me and the current Mrs V realising we liked each other.

I decided to wait until my ex had finished her finals and dissertation before actually finishing with her, which was hard. I'd told her that I wasn't sure I loved her etc. so wasn't just stringing her along.

I didn't tell her that there was someone else because that wasn't really the main issue we just had aims that were too different for things to really carry on properly after uni.

like I said though, it was hard. Full story is in my profile if you want to read it.
( Vipros. clever got me this far, then tricky got me in, Tue 2 Sep 2008, 9:42, Reply)