Aw,
come on, you're a big boy.

It's obvious you're doing a bit of trolling, but having managed to hook one or two of us, it's bad form to flounce off like that. I'm not calling you a wanker, so you don't need to get offended.

(edit) I didn't read the other post. What you said makes more sense. I don't think that's a valid example of OCD though.
( Not Pineapple anymore, Mon 5 Jul 2010, 17:34, 1 reply)

Thank you.
You're more than welcome.
( Je suis un vagabond is an unfunny, up your own arse middle class knob, Mon 5 Jul 2010, 19:00, closed)

Ok, I'm biting. I know I shouldn't feed trolls, but here goes...
"If the OCDist realises that the compulsion are irrational/over the top, then I still don't understand why they do them, as they're irrational."

The person with OCD will realise that to a normal person their behaviour is over the top and not normal.

Take the example of a person locking the door and having to check twenty times in case they've not done it right. They're scared of the consequences if they get it wrong. Now, a normal person will check and when they do a little switch switches in their head and they stop worrying and get on with their lives. The person with OCD has a faulty switch that doesn't switch. They keep worrying, and the worry can be so strong it's completely debilitating. Just ignoring simply isn't an option.

If a normal person wasn't sure if they'd locked the door they'd worry. I know that for me it would be a distracting thought throughout the day. You wouldn't think it at all strange if that person went back to check to reassure themselves that the door was locked. But if we follow your logic they should just lock it right the first time and then learn to deal with the worry. Clearly, since people aren't right all the time, this worry mechanism has a rightful place in our heads. There's a good reason why we double check some things.

For the OCD sufferer it's the worry mechanism that doesn't work, or at least the mental switch that stops the worry. Just ignoring the worry doesn't make it go away, it makes it worse. The person knows they shouldn't worry, but that doesn't stop them worrying, so they do the thing that does stop them worrying.

Why do you not want to accept that some people find it harder to just stop doing these things than you do? Why is this such a problem for you?
(robbersdog, Mon 5 Jul 2010, 23:53, closed)

Starting with name-calling doesn't do your position much good in the PR/taking it seriously stakes.
I don't have a problem. I just don't understand why someone would evince a behaviour that they themselves found annoying or debilitating. To me it seems foolish.
( Je suis un vagabond is an unfunny, up your own arse middle class knob, Tue 6 Jul 2010, 9:57, closed)

to most of
us it seems foolish. If it didn't, there wouldn't be anything to discuss.

But to say foolish behaviour shouldn't exist on the grounds it's foolish is a bit, er, foolish.

If you could stop people doing stupid things just by pointing out they're stupid, you'd be solving a lot of problems. Tell a herion addict, or even a smoker that he's being an idiot. See if that helps.

I think you made your point about 20 posts ago.
( Not Pineapple anymore, Tue 6 Jul 2010, 12:25, closed)