Sorry to be blunt, but
It's not clear from your otherwise brutally honest and empassioned confession:

Were you shagging her, or not?
(moon monkey is busy making memories worth repressing, Mon 20 Jun 2011, 9:28, 2 replies)

We were all thinking it
Thanks
(amacupcake, Mon 20 Jun 2011, 10:03, closed)

"Not" would almost be a better answer.
Can you imagine how crap, lifeless and purely functional the sex would be in this scenario? Been there myself, and it's a good way of feeling like a worthless whore, even for men.
(Falstaff's Spiritual Successor, Mon 20 Jun 2011, 10:21, closed)

The alternative would be
that it was absolutely fantastic BUT she would only be up for it very, very rarely. So the poor sod was always hanging on, hoping, but constantly being rejected.

Hmm, now that I come to mention it, that reminds me of at least two previous relationships...
(moon monkey is busy making memories worth repressing, Mon 20 Jun 2011, 12:08, closed)

There was some sex, but not in the weekend detailed. Wasn't bad but never as good as promised in the texts.
(Mong goose, Mon 20 Jun 2011, 14:08, closed)