House Guests"Last week," Ungersven confesses, "I vomited over almost everything in a friend's spare room. The only thing to escape the deluge was the rather attractive (alas engaged) French girl who was sharing the bed with me." Tell us about nightmare guests or Fred West-a-like hosts.
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Scaryduck LIKES EGG, Thu 6 Jan 2011, 14:20)
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Get out.If she wants you to move back in to make things serious, she'll have to say so. Sounds like she doesn't. Moving back in because she's upset is not a good enough reason if you're upset to be there. As it stands, she's sad to lose an occasional shag and a lodger. Who's feelings do you value the most, yours or hers?
(, Tue 11 Jan 2011, 20:46, 1 reply)
very true. Stupid thing is, I think I'd rather be unhappy than make soemone else unhappy. I'm bloody ripe for being made a mug of arent I?
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Er, yes.Sounds like it. If the sex has now gone as well, then it sounds like its not coming back any time soon. If she values you as a friend, you can meet up after you've moved out. Its what friends do and you've been kicked squarely back into the friend zone. If she wants a relationship, she can let you know later. What possible objection could she have to you moving out?
I'd never guilt trip a friend of mine into moving back in when I know that I could go out and see them or have them visit. That's not normal behaviour and sounds extremely manipulative.
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