You've had your cake and ate it
when there is no more cake, at least you have a tum full of cake. Better than those who never even saw cake in the first place. I'm fine for cake now but back when I was in your situation 8 years ago I would have killed for that kind of cake.
( Rotating Wobbly Hat That's not a banana. THIS is a banana., Tue 11 Jan 2011, 23:18, 1 reply)

This cake is the prettiest, tastiest cake ever.... but more than that, there's this thing that I can't explain that makes me come back / stay even when I know in my heart of hearts the chances are it's going to end in tears (mine)
(SausageWarrior destination Zululand, come on boys jump in the van, Tue 11 Jan 2011, 23:49, closed)

Another two things to consider
1. If you haven't had the snip, what happens if she gets pregnant? There's always this risk in any sexual relationship that involves non 100% reliable contraception. What happens then? Would you enjoy having an open relationship with her if she has your baby (or some other guy's) or would it totally screw your head up? Also, what happens if she picks something up off one of the hot guys she brings back or shags elsewhere? Casual sex can be fun for a while (it was for me), but the more you do it, the more risks you take. Most of the people I know in long-term open relationships have herpes, chlamydia or similar infections.

2. If you haven't been constantly going on to her in a bantery way about all the hot girls you've seen lately, why should she suddenly bring pulling hot men up in conversation and assume you'd want to talk that way? Strikes me as a tad odd and presumptuous. Unless she's mad or totally lacking in social skills, it sounds like she was doing it deliberately, to hurt you and get a reaction.
(IHateSprouts is baking a huge pie shaped like an enormous pie, Wed 12 Jan 2011, 19:27, closed)