AAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAARRRRRRRRGH!
Children's bones are fragile and break easily FFS! Common sense doesn't exist anymore.
So, if the collective advice of the police, Surestart and all recommended medical opinion isn't sufficient for social services, then what the hell is?
Your entire family is being punished here, which ultimately must be causing even more unnecessary distress to all of you. Sounds like one of the many cases of SS doing more harm than good.

What can I say? You and your family have my utmost sympathy, and I hope to god that common sense will prevail sooner rather than later.

*hugs*
( Tourette's ( . )( . ) has a monkey hair in her fried egg, Tue 22 Apr 2008, 9:30, Reply)