Lucky
You were lucky you had the choice.

My ex-girlfriend would regularly mention the fact that she wanted kids (At this stage we had been going out a couple of months tops) she was on the pill (Gotta love how we seem to be under the impression that the pill is flawless).

After a night out one weekend we got down to business, just after we finished up she exclaimed 'Fucking hell, if I don't get pregnant after this I'm never gonna get pregnant' ...... When I questioned this statement I was lovingly informed that she had in fact come off the pill without telling me. When i objected to this I got a major guilt trip.

As luck would have it she did end up pregnant after that night, we are not together any more, but our son (Now nearly two) is more important than anything else to me. I would not give him up for the world, but it sucks having other people decide weather or not I was ready to be a father without me.
(oeb, Wed 23 Apr 2008, 11:43, Reply)