Lies that went on too long
When you lie you often have to keep lying. Share your pain. When I was 15 I pretended to be 16 to help get a summer job. Then had to spend a summer with this nice shopkeeper asking me everyday if I was excited about getting my GCSE results. I felt like an utter shit. Thanks to MerseyMal for the suggestion.
( , Thu 8 Mar 2012, 21:57)
When you lie you often have to keep lying. Share your pain. When I was 15 I pretended to be 16 to help get a summer job. Then had to spend a summer with this nice shopkeeper asking me everyday if I was excited about getting my GCSE results. I felt like an utter shit. Thanks to MerseyMal for the suggestion.
( , Thu 8 Mar 2012, 21:57)
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or, unless he has emphysema or lung cancer,
you could treat him like a grownup and mind your fucking business.
( , Tue 13 Mar 2012, 7:56, 3 replies)
you could treat him like a grownup and mind your fucking business.
( , Tue 13 Mar 2012, 7:56, 3 replies)
Fuck It
I'm off to slit my wrists. I'm forced by my convictions to agree with janet.
I feel so dirty...
( , Tue 13 Mar 2012, 13:52, closed)
I'm off to slit my wrists. I'm forced by my convictions to agree with janet.
I feel so dirty...
( , Tue 13 Mar 2012, 13:52, closed)
If he thought it was his own fucking business
He wouldn't be lying to his wife about it. In any case, she's his wife. If he does something as fucking stupid as smoking then it is her business.
( , Tue 13 Mar 2012, 21:51, closed)
He wouldn't be lying to his wife about it. In any case, she's his wife. If he does something as fucking stupid as smoking then it is her business.
( , Tue 13 Mar 2012, 21:51, closed)
excuse me, what?
you're firmly in the 'marriage as subjugation' camp then?
( , Wed 14 Mar 2012, 12:37, closed)
you're firmly in the 'marriage as subjugation' camp then?
( , Wed 14 Mar 2012, 12:37, closed)
Do you mean
it only becomes her business once he gets emphysema or cancer?
My wife has neither of those particular ailments, but has smoked for years.
What I can tell you is that it's really shit to see her in ICU, tubes and oxygen and shit, going grey and gasping for breath, while the doctor tells her that her lungs are so fucked, that the best the would do for her is make her comfortable till they stop working completely, no resuscitation. I can't even imagine how she felt about it.
Secondly if an agreement was made, surely it deserves to be respected, bit like the whole marriage thing really. I'm quite sure there'd be no "mind your own fucking business", if she was fucking someone else behind his back, and he found an open pack of condoms under the seat of her car.
( , Thu 15 Mar 2012, 10:14, closed)
it only becomes her business once he gets emphysema or cancer?
My wife has neither of those particular ailments, but has smoked for years.
What I can tell you is that it's really shit to see her in ICU, tubes and oxygen and shit, going grey and gasping for breath, while the doctor tells her that her lungs are so fucked, that the best the would do for her is make her comfortable till they stop working completely, no resuscitation. I can't even imagine how she felt about it.
Secondly if an agreement was made, surely it deserves to be respected, bit like the whole marriage thing really. I'm quite sure there'd be no "mind your own fucking business", if she was fucking someone else behind his back, and he found an open pack of condoms under the seat of her car.
( , Thu 15 Mar 2012, 10:14, closed)
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