Midlife CrisisI've hit my forties, and my midlife crisis has manifested itself in old band T-shirts and a desire to go on camper van holidays. How has it hit you, or - if you are still a youngling - your elders?
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Scaryduck LIKES EGG, Thu 2 May 2013, 11:55)
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Not good, howeverit's up to your ex who she chooses to be with. Don't turn your kids into a weapon. Respect her choice, as long as he's not a kiddie-fiddler, grin and bear it. You'll do more for your kids by biting your lip now, and then telling them home truths once they are old enough and have left home. Don't tell them that mum's new boyfriend's a wanker...if he is, they'll work that out for themselves. Be the adult, let the kids be the kids. Best of luck sir.
(, Sat 4 May 2013, 14:50, 2 replies)
This is great advice.It's about keeping your dignity.
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Thank you.Thanks for the advice, makes great sense. I'm trying to keep a lid on it. I'm also trying to keep some sort of positive relationship with the inlaws, as I really like them, and they tell me they like me. She'll try and do a number on me again and turn me in to the bad guy, to alienate me from them, but for now I'm biting my tongue.
(, Sat 4 May 2013, 15:45, closed)
Bite it!Bite it like the Devil himself!
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