Thanks
Things had been shit for a very very long time and the other person gave me the affection I craved and a bit of self esteem. I moved out the day the texts were found and I've been pretty happy ever since. I've built a business, spent lots of time with my little girl and I'm even getting on with my ex quite well.

We agreed that we should get the divorce sorted out now though as she's moved on to a new relationship.

So I don't suppose that the mobile phone ruined my life - in hindsight I think that my wife discovering them was probably for the best and meant that an unhappy relationship was ended before it got even worse and started to affect the young 'un....
(penrose your dog's got tits, Fri 31 Jul 2009, 13:56, Reply)