She is your daughter and as such deserves your input. (After all, you don't want her to turn into her mother...)
To say "they fuck you up, your mum and dad," is perhaps a rather cynical view of an important truth, which is that you will play an important role in shaping her personality. I'm quite glad of the way my own parents shaped me - sure, I've got my own set of problems and neuroses _{and massively benderish tendencies}, but they could have done a lot worse than they did. Just remember, she's your daughter, and it's your duty to fuck her up until she's the person you want her to be. After all, every parent wants to be proud of their child, and it would be much harder to be proud of a vacuous, tiara-sporting commoner.
(LongJohnBaldry, Wed 12 Jan 2011, 11:18, Reply)