I don't think you should give up on a marriage because it's a bit of a pain.
I'm sure PJ just moans a lot.
(PsychoChomp, Mon 25 Feb 2013, 12:09, 2 replies, latest was 12 years ago)

And I could moan every more
things could always be worse, at least im not Nakers
( Peej, Mon 25 Feb 2013, 12:12, Reply)

You have been added to the distinguished list of b3ta men who've been beaten up by a girl though.

(PsychoChomp, Mon 25 Feb 2013, 12:14, Reply)

YEAH.
REAL MEN HIT BACK.
( Monty Boyce, My cheese game is strong, Mon 25 Feb 2013, 12:16, Reply)

Beaten up is pushing it
she hits me but she's quite petite so I have had harder pats. She'll have to use a bat next time.
( Peej, Mon 25 Feb 2013, 12:16, Reply)

She's only doing it because she knows you won't hit her back.
I can't stand people that use any form of power over somebody else where the other person can't fight back on equal terms. It's fucking cowardly. My ex used to do it. She'd call me all manner of names and then if I ever retaliated she'd break down and accuse me of abuse. Fucking mental.
( Kroney, Mon 25 Feb 2013, 12:18, Reply)

I may have encountered something ever-so-slightly similar in my life.
Assault me in front of my kid and then refuse me access to my daughter because of concerns about her safety.
( Monty Boyce, My cheese game is strong, Mon 25 Feb 2013, 12:19, Reply)

Which is why I, as a personal opinion, reckon PJ should just bail.

( Kroney, Mon 25 Feb 2013, 12:20, Reply)

I think I agree actually

( Monty Boyce, My cheese game is strong, Mon 25 Feb 2013, 12:21, Reply)

I'm going to give the counselling a chance.
I think people can change if they actually want to and I don't think she actually wants to be a violent, frigid stress bitch. and if she wants to change it might be ok.

If not I'll start shagging my mates PA, she's hot
( Peej, Mon 25 Feb 2013, 12:24, Reply)

I'm going through an utterly pointless mediation process simply so I can say I tried.
Attempting to reason with the insane, nice.
( Monty Boyce, My cheese game is strong, Mon 25 Feb 2013, 12:25, Reply)

Has she actually gone to one yet?

(PsychoChomp, Mon 25 Feb 2013, 12:28, Reply)

Of course not.
She said she'd 'endeavour' to give me her proposed mediators within 28 days: time's up tomorrow, then I take to to court for violating my existing order.
( Monty Boyce, My cheese game is strong, Mon 25 Feb 2013, 12:29, Reply)

Her solicitor must be aware he's onto a loser, here.

( Kroney, Mon 25 Feb 2013, 12:31, Reply)

I still think you should get her bumped off. Automatic custody!
Unless you're some kind of drug addled loser with no money
( Peej, Mon 25 Feb 2013, 12:34, Reply)

Think of the child benifit!!!!

(PsychoChomp, Mon 25 Feb 2013, 12:38, Reply)

My wife calls me an idiot a lot
and I know its not exactly the worst thing to call someone but I am quite proud of the fact that I have an education and continue to educate myself, increase my skill set and improve my CV . So I get quite offended when she calls me an idiot because i'm fucking not. She could call me a twat and she'd have me bang to rights.
( Peej, Mon 25 Feb 2013, 12:21, Reply)

You fucking idiot.

(PsychoChomp, Mon 25 Feb 2013, 12:22, Reply)

Yeah, I get it.
It's not the form of insult so much, it's the fact that it's a personal attack from somebody you love. I'm afraid that it does reflect how they feel about you rather more than when they're being nice.
( Kroney, Mon 25 Feb 2013, 12:25, Reply)

If you're not right, you're not right.
Putting yourself through getting chucked out like this just wastes time.
( Kroney, Mon 25 Feb 2013, 12:17, Reply)