I did the go out with your mates thing
when I was a teenager and it screwed up a lot of friendships as it was only after the fact that someone else in our group would announce that they liked someone. Thereby making the new couple feel uncomfortable and forcing others in the group to take sides for comforting and slating accordingly. This would happen at least once every three months or so.

Now I'd still rather date someone I knew as a friend first, but not be THAT comfortable with them as then I think I'd only think of them as a friend and not sexually.

Edit: I do like the sound of Megaharem. sounds like a new transformer to me as well :)
( fuck shit up the best you never had, Fri 18 Jul 2008, 21:42, Reply)