*opens nurse clinic ,)*
Which feliway are you using? The plug in or the spray? I find personally that the spray is a lot better for my Giz as he's the only male in a house of three females and feels the need to kick the shit out of one of my parents cats on a regular basis. So I spray feliway in places where he likes to roam indoors and put cut up orange slices (juicy side up) outside where I don't want him to piss. Failing that, cat nip is wonderful - just a pinch of it at a time as one of my parents cats found the bag of it and raided it during the night. She acted like she was stoned for hours afterwards. If all else fails, keep a garden spray bottle handy when you see said tom being a feisty little sod and give him a quick squirt of water. The aim is NOT to drench the cat, but to distract him from what he's doing wrong. That will give the other cat a chance to get away and he'll soon realise that what he's doing is wrong and will stop doing it. You gotta be vigilant though. Giz just has to see me reach for the bottle and he's gone now. THIS IS A LAST RESORT TO BE USED AFTER EXHAUSTING ALL OTHER POSSIBILITIES and I take no responsibility for any cats who are just mean for the sake of it.
( fuck shit up the best you never had, Mon 4 Aug 2008, 23:09, Reply)